I would have to say that I am an average, normal guy who happens to have found my feminine side and embraced her. In my daily life I an male. I am masculine, but can appreciate things from a feminine point of view. If you catch me looking at other women, be reassured that I am checking out her outfit and see how it works, or how it doesn't and what I would do different. I love doing manly things like using a chainsaw or working on the car. But sometimes I might like to wear a pair of nylon undies underneath! LOL. Being Kendra is not a huge part of my life, but she is a part of me and I want that known right from the start. I would not try to force anything and think that acceptance is a form of love that is overlooked. A plus side to having a crossdressing mate is that you don't have to worry about asking to buy a new purse or pair of shoes. And if we are close to the same size, you have just doubled your wardrobe. And I know how much trouble and time it takes to look really good! My soon to be ex-wife and I have gone out as two girlfriends and she was OK with that, as well as moving in with an old boyfriend (but that's another story). I haven't gone out in a year, but do miss it. I'm a member of a T-girl group in Portland and they have about 50 active members. They go to comedy clubs once a month, have dinners and nights out at least once a week, and have gone golfing and other things together. They are very nice people who own their own businesses, are managers, etc. Two of the girls have even gone all the way with SRS surgery. One of them still drive a log truck! She even has a cute Mercedes-Benz roadster.

My Ideal Person Someone who is open minded. Someone who won't want to steal all my life savings. Wait, someone already did that!
A lady who doesn't like to play games and lie at every chance.
I know you're now supposed to bring up the past, but it is amazing at how many other men are in the same boat as myself, so I want to bring it up at first.
I'm looking at someone who likes to try new things and be willing to say it's not for them if it isn't. Someone who realizes that to have a good relationship and closeness, you have to have a great base to build on.